by Eddie Lomash, LCPC, PhD
Valentine’s Day isn’t only for couples— it’s a time for everyone to get in on the fun. If you’re single in Anne Arundel County, why not make it a celebration of you? There’s no shortage of ways to make the day feel special, and plenty of local options are waiting!
INDULGENT SELF-CARE
Prioritize Yourself
Now’s the time to slow down and spoil yourself. If there ever was a time to prioritize you, it’s now! Maybe you splurge on that skincare product you’ve been eyeing, or decide to treat yourself to a massage you’ve put off. Consider booking a treatment like a facial, relaxing massage, or pedicure at Even Keel Wellness Spa or Beauty Fox Beauty Room. Or keep it simple—visit your local indie bookstore (Park Books, Old Fox Books) and pick up that guilty pleasure read (A Court of Thorns and Roses, anyone?). Maybe this year’s self-care is a digital detox. Leave the phone at home. Okay, that may be unrealistic, but at least put it on “Do Not Disturb” and take a stroll on the B&A Trail, then grab Berger cookies on your way back.
TABLE FOR ONE
A Date with Yourself
I’m a therapist by day. I hear it already: “But Eddie, I can’t go to a restaurant alone!” Yes, you can! Dining solo can be uncomfortable the first time, but once you get over that, it’s freeing—no splitting plates, no compromising on dessert, no distractions. Make a reservation for one or sit at the bar and see who you meet! Annapolis favorites for a solo night out include Caliente Grill, where a warm atmosphere, authentic Latin cuisine, and welcoming staff make dining alone a joy.
CELEBRATE PLATONIC LOVE
Friends Count Too
Romantic love isn’t the only type of love worth celebrating! Platonic love is just as important, and “Galentine’s” is the perfect excuse to make it a night with friends. Gather your crew for a cozy PJ party and movie marathon. My suggestion? Enjoy 90s romantic comedies like You’ve Got Mail and 10 Things I Hate About You. Or get creative with a DIY craft night! Stay in and paint wine glasses, or try your hand at candle-making. If you’re up for going out, check out ArtFarm Annapolis—they offer classes in everything from painting to improv.
GETTING OUT AND ABOUT
Find the Right Spot
With so many great spots in Anne Arundel County, where do you find the perfect Valentine’s hangout? Not all events are on the books yet, but plenty of restaurants will have themed dinners and specials. Luna Blu often hosts wine and chocolate pairings or multi-course dinners, and Blackwall Hitch is known for its holiday specials. Spend time in these fun atmospheres, where the focus is on the food and the experience – not just small talk.
GET MOVING
Dance It Out
Put on your dancing shoes and hit up Federal House or any lively bar that celebrates with love songs (or breakup songs, if that’s more your mood). These places usually have special cocktails and a spirited crowd ready for a fun night. If bars are not your spot, try a dance class. If dancing isn’t your thing, try a workout class like pilates, spin, or yoga. Moving your body can help you connect with yourself.
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