Tattoos and piercings are some of the most creative ways our culture displays self-expression. What once started out as something only meant for a particular sect of people quickly became a social norm overnight. It is hard to walk down the street without seeing someone who doesn’t have a tattoo or piercing.
So, what happens when your teenager asks if they can get one? As a parent, some common reactions are a gasp, clutching of the pearls (or chest), or an immediate “no.” However, I recommend taking the approach of asking questions and considering how this can be a healthy form of self-expression. Here are some things to be aware of so that you and your teenager can navigate through their first tattoo or piercing together.
1. What should your teenager be aware of when getting their first tattoo and/or piercing?
Tattoo artists and body piercers agree that sanitation of the shop, experience of the artist, and the understanding of permanency are the three most important things when deciding on your first tattoo or piercing.
Chris Ingles, from Dapper Dog Tattoo, encourages clients to be mindful of “the vibe” of the staff.
“If everyone is happy and friendly, you can assume they like what they do and will put that joy into your tattoo,” he explained. “Make sure to shop around. Tattoos are forever.”
As far as piercings, be sure to talk with the piercer about jewelry options in advance. If you have sensitive skin, hypoallergenic jewelry may be necessary and more expensive.
2. What kind of documentation does your teenager need to bring with them?
Some tattoo shops have certain house rules and do not tattoo anyone under the age of 18. If your teenager is a minor, parental consent is required, and you or a guardian will need to be present to sign a waiver. A photo ID, such as a passport, learner’s permit, or school ID, is required to show proof of identification. In some instances, when a parent’s and child’s last names do not match, additional documentation, such as a birth certificate, might be required.
3. Will getting a tattoo and/or piercing hurt?
The short answer is yes, but typically not badly. However, the severity of the pain does depend on the area of the body being tattooed or pierced. Many people describe the feeling of getting their first tattoo or piercing as similar to a cat scratch or a mild sunburn. The feeling is often more annoying than intensely painful. Some areas hurt more than others, and it differs from person to person.
A combination of factors, such as thinner skin, a higher amount of nerve endings, absence of cushioning tissue, proximity to bones, size and complexity of a tattoo or piercing, as well as the artist’s technique, impact the amount of pain an individual might feel.
“As a body piercer, we are here to take care of you and walk you through the entire process,” said Hannah Swank, who does body piercings at Red Octopus Tattoo.”Specific piercings, such as cartilage, nose, and belly button, might take longer to heal than others. Piercings swell, and that is normal. But quality jewelry is very important.”
Chris Ingles also adds that staying hydrated during a tattoo session will help to make the healing process smoother and potentially less painful.
“Adequate rest and a decent meal beforehand, especially for three-plus hour tattoos, can make a huge difference.”
4. What is the tattoo industry’s stance on touch-ups?
It is important to keep in mind that touch-ups are at the discretion of the artist. Some artists offer free touch-ups within the first 6 months or up to a year after the tattoo was completed.
Samantha Ford from Love Struck Tattoo notes that fading is normal. “All tattoos age and fade over time. Fading can happen faster with excessive sun exposure,” she explained. “Touch-ups are usually needed if you notice any apparent inconsistencies that are not supposed to be there within the initial healing or application of your tattoo.”
5. What does the healing process look like for both tattoos and piercings?
Scott James, who does body piercings at Lucky Bird Tattoo, shares his thoughts on what to expect as far as time frame and aftercare.
“The healing process can be tedious and requires a lot of patience,” he warned. “We always encourage clients, especially those getting their first piercing, to stay committed to proper aftercare and schedule follow-up check-ins. Take your time, don’t rush the process, and work with your piercer to plan your goals.”
Tattoos require a similar process in partnership with your tattoo artist.
It’s important to know that tattoo artists and body piercers complete an apprenticeship program. These programs typically take one to three years to complete and involve working under the supervision of an experienced professional while gaining hands-on experience and learning about safety, hygiene, and various techniques.
Tattoos and piercings will allow your teen to express their unique style and identity. The well-being of our children is always at the forefront of our minds. Especially when it pertains to things that are permanent and long-lasting. Knowing that there’s a shared interest between you, your child, and their tattoo artist/piercer can help to make the experience and this step towards personal freedom even more gratifying.
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